ABOUT JANEL: INTIMACY & SOMATIC SEXUALITY COACH for Men

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Silicon Valley Sex Therapy & Intimacy Coaching

Somatic Sexual Awareness & Self-Confidence leads to better sex, increased pleasure and confidence. Menlo Park & Oakland Sex Therapy & Intimacy Counseling (online sessions available).

Janel works with men, specializing in helping straight men gain confidence with women and their own sexuality through consciousness awareness and embodiment practices. After years of working in tech, Janel observed that some men in the Silicon Valley (& globally) struggle with sensuality and the emotional intelligence needed for thriving intimate relationships. She helps men become better lovers and bring forward their erotic energy in a way women will respond to.

Individuals, cOUPles & Open RelatiOnship Configurations:

In addition to working with traditional relationship configurations, Janel also works with couples or individuals who are in or seeking open relationships to help them identify their needs, desires and boundaries. She believes that being non-monogamous is fundamental and unchangeable for some people. She works with people from the place of their authentic sexual and romantic expression.

  • Gain confidence in sex and love to find the right partner(s) for you.

  • Practice communicating about your desires and develop emotional intelligence.

  • Explore the tools of intimacy in a safe container.

  •  Create relationships that help you grow, not hold you back, with Janel Marie’s sex and relationship coaching for the Bay Area (Silicon Valley and Oakland) and beyond (online).

open love

Are you non-monogamous or curious about it?  

Explore open relationships or polyamory with support and guidance from an expert.

sexy communication

Talking about our needs and desires is hard because no one ever taught us how to do it. Embrace what you really want in sex and love—and practice verbal and nonverbal ways to communicate it.

Menlo Park sex and intimacy coaching, sex therapy and couples therapy

Janel empowers clients to discover the relationship structure that works for them.

Oakland, Online & Menlo Park Somatic-Based Sex Therapy & Intimacy Coaching

shame free SPace


Janel is an anti-shame advocate and provide a completely nonjudgmental space for clients to explore difficult and taboo subjects such as infidelity, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, outsourcing sex to sex workers, non-monogamy, differing sexual desires between partners, and unusual fetishes/kinks. 

She helps men become better lovers and bring forward their erotic energy in a way women will respond to.

MENLO PARK, PALO ALTO, OAKLAND AND ONLINE SEX & INTIMACY COACHING

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We Speak Relationship.

We are sex positive, shame free, and highly skilled practitioners, here to help you have fulfilling relationships and authentic embodied sexuality that you desire!

COACHING FOR MODERN RELATIONSHIPS

  • Break free from the old rules about what you "should" want or do in relationships.

  • Gain confidence in sex and love and find the right partner(s) for you.

  • Learn to trust your instincts: become more embodied and emotionally intelligent.

  • Design empowering relationships that help you grow, not hold you back.

MY MISSION

To help people break free from outdated rules about sex and love to create truly intimate, empowering relationships.

MY OFFERING

Let's discover what you really want in sex and relationships—and build the confidence and skills to get it. I can help!

Janel Marie Vitale, Somatic Sexuality Coach: Oakland, Menlo Park & Palo Alto Sex Therapy

methodology

I was trained at the Somatica Institutethe Tantric Institute of Integrated Sexuality, and hold a bachelor's degree in Communication from the University of Southern California. My approach to sex and relationship coaching is interactive and holistic. It is based on the proven concept that experiential learning can more quickly and deeply impact personal growth than does traditional talk therapy or cognitive learning. Through somatic (body-based) exercises such as meditation, visualization, breath work, role play and consensual touch, I will help you gain confidence around intimacy, celebrate your desires, learn to identify and ask for what you want, and feel more connected to yourself and others.