About Haley Friend

Haley Friend Wilson is a trauma informed Certified Embodiment & Somatic Sexuality Coach helping individuals and couples access a deeper connection to body, sexuality and self. It is her mission to help liberate people into the most embodied and pleasure filled expression of themselves. 

She guides people through a researched process of shedding shame in relation to their sexuality to establish an empowered erotic connection to their pleasure and desire. She helps her clients unearth their bodies' innate wisdom, sensuality and wholeness. She has been called an “emotional midwife” ~ assisting in deep transformation in a safe and loving container.

Through her 20 year experience in the field of sex positivity, consent education, somatic sexuality, pleasure cultivation and trauma healing, she equips her clients with the tools to cultivate and expand their pleasure and sexual expression in ways that are authentic and satisfying to them using the tools of somatic healing, embodied practice and taoist sexual cultivation techniques. Her work is grounded in the knowledge that no one is broken and that we can transform our pain to deeper pleasure with the right support, guidance and tools. She offers online sessions to individuals and partners..

Haley is a Certified Facilitator of the Embodied Psycho Sexual Desilets Method.

"Psychosexuality looks at the relationship between the psychology of a person and their sexual function and sexual experience and how the two influence one another. Embodied PsychoSexual/Désilets Method has the unique addition of weaving somatic awareness into the process taking into consideration the impact of the practitioners embodiment (aka limbic resonance) as well as encouraging client active participation in implementing interoceptive awareness, somatic practices, and self-regulating techniques. The addition of the embodied component to the psychosexual methodology makes it far more impactful and transformative. Currently this method has been demonstrated to have measurable physiological impact on sexual function.

Haley specializes in helping people to : 

• Release shame/trauma/limiting beliefs around sexuality and connect to a celebration of one's sexuality ~ allowing for a deeper connection with erotic energy, pleasure and desires

• Helping men who have some kind of sexual issue like erectile dysfunction, low libido or quick/slow ejaculation 

• Helping women who have some kind of sexual issue like pain with sex, vulva dynea, low libido, or trouble orgasming 

• Assisting couples to move through desire discrepancies to find a deeper synergy of connection together

• Expanding pleasure through somatic embodiment practices after sex change or for trans/non-binary folks to feel more at home in the root of their body

• Education of the anatomy of pleasure for all genders and tools to use this anatomical knowledge in increase self pleasure and pleasure with a partner/s 

• Pleasure mapping practice and tool kit to somatically unwind tension

• Taoist sexual cultivation practices to cultivate sexual energy

• Taoist qigong and hormonal balancing practices

• Jade Egg practices 

• Somatic embodiment practices to expand pleasure, increase sensation and move into a state of relaxed arousal 

• Learning to deepen self pleasure practice ~ identifying what you like AND how to ask for what you want 

• Learn tools for healthy communication in and out of the bedroom ~ identify and express needs, desires and boundaries

• How to use Betty Martin’s wheel of consent for couples to increase pleasure, connection and turn on