How to repair after an argument

The Pursuer / Distancer Dynamic in Intimate Relationships: San Francisco Couples Counselors Explain this Negative Relationship Pattern & How to Stop it.

The Pursuer / Distancer Dynamic in Intimate Relationships: San Francisco Couples Counselors Explain this Negative Relationship Pattern & How to Stop it.

 The Pursuer/ Distancer Dynamic in Intimate Relationships: The Most Painful & Dangerous Dynamic is not to be ignored! Our highly specialized expert San Francisco Bay Area Couples Counselors and Sex Therapists can help identify the negative cycle and help you learn more effective communication skills that will lead to deeper connection, trust, security and intimacy. 

The Move to Harmony: San Francisco Couples Therapists Speak How to Repair After a Fight.

The Move to Harmony:  San Francisco Couples Therapists Speak How to Repair After a Fight.

It's Inevitable. All couples will argue and push each other’s buttons at times. In fact, partnerships often bring up our core wounds and needs, bringing to the surface that which most needs attention. This happens in many forms, but it is most obvious when we are triggered, such as when our partner’s behaviors activate a sensitive issue within us. A couples counselor can help you figure out the anatomy of how a fight can escalate by deconstructing your feelings and needs. In helping you understand and look at when you get triggered and how that trigger may potentially be causing a ripple trigger effect with your partner, you can stop the negative cycle and more effectively communicate. Our highly specialized couples therapists can help you and your partner increased consciousness and awareness of the dynamics underlying your disagreements; in deepening your mutual understanding, your relationship will become less stressful, more harmonious and even exciting.  Your differences will serve as a bookmark, a place in yourself that is calling for healing.